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Things I stopped doing this year

2026-02-08 · 3 min read

A short list:

The shortest item costs me the least and gave me back the most. I'll let you guess which one.

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Reggie
6 days ago
The hardest one is saying no to coffee meetings. People take it personally even when it's not personal.
Author reply
5 days ago
It does get easier. The trick I'm still learning: don't justify, just decline. The justifications are what invites the negotiation.
serena.t
1 week ago
I'm guessing it's the morning news one. That's the one that broke for me too.
Tomás
2 weeks ago
The cheap-version trade-off is so real. Cheap shoes destroyed my back. Cheap chairs destroyed my back. Cheap pillows destroyed my back. There's a pattern.
Joana
2 weeks ago
Refreshing email when waiting is the silent productivity killer of my generation.
b.shapiro
3 weeks ago
Did exactly this with the morning news 4 months ago. My mood is measurably better.
priya.k
4 weeks ago
I still do the group-chat one. Reading this and reconsidering.
d.varga
5 weeks ago
The shortest is "Refreshing email". It's 4 words. My guess.
Marin
5 weeks ago
Counter-list incoming: things I started doing. Walks without phones. Cold showers. Writing 3 sentences a day. All free.
kessler.m
6 weeks ago
The pattern in your list is "stop pre-acting on things that haven't happened yet". News, refresh, anticipated meetings.
h.rao
7 weeks ago
My version of #4 was sheets. Bought one set of good sheets. Kept them 5 years. The cheap ones lasted six months each.
Anya
8 weeks ago
Saving this list. It's permission to drop things I've been carrying.

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